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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]this is such bizarre logic to me. Can no one complain, in this case? When a mom of 1, a newborn, complains that she is tired, is your response "well, YOU chose to have a baby. Either manage it or don't but stop complaining about your choices. You knew what the repercussions would be." When someone says "oh my gosh it's so hot out" is your response "either managing living in a hot city or don't but stop complaining about your own choices." [/quote]

Yes, I do.  I do not give a damn if you're sleep deprived because every person who has ever had a baby has been sleep deprived.  Also, not a single member of your family owes you free child care, house cleaning, or cooking your bloody meals.  As for hot summers, absolutely every building is air conditioned.  Turn on yours!

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NP and your lack of empathy makes me think you're the same troll who is always berating new moms for having the audacity to ask for support. I actually think it's really helpful to know when a friend or colleague isn't sleeping well because I've been there and I know how hard it is. After reading your grumpy post, I'm especially grateful that I work with people who support each other! [/quote]

No one gives AF about you or your brats [/quote]

Sorry grumpy troll. While you have chosen to live in a lonely, bitter world, most of us have built loving networks of friends and family. [/quote]

NP. I have a lot of friends and family but I realize that my children are my responsibility and I never ask for favors except in an emergency or pawn them off on people.

Feel free to be a user but realize that your friends and family realize it.[/quote]

How did you misconstrue being part of a supportive network for being a user? As I said previously, I empathize with and help a lot of friends and family. That's part of building relationships...not just using people. Why are ya'll so cynical?[/quote]

"Supportive network" my ass. My cousin has 4; I have 2. She has taken one of my children for one play date one time. I have taken various iterations of her kids multiple, multiple times. I have taken various iterations of her kids overnight. I have taken them to the movies. I have sat with them at family events/taken one or two out with me. Etc., etc.

SUPPORT is a two-way street. When it's not back and forth, it's just taking. Own it. [/quote]

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