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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Soulmates is a silly concept that requires you to believe some fairytale that you were “made” for someone. It absolves you of the responsibility of actively loving your partner. It’s far less romantic than you think. [/quote]
Soulmate has nothing to do with the belief that "you were made for someone." But it is so rare that you usually only experience it only once in your life (if you are lucky). It is a connection that goes well beyond the five senses, the languages of love and all of that stuff. But I understand that if you never experience it you might brush it off as fairy tales believes. [/quote]

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Barf again.
Believing this stuff means that you’ll just abandon your steady relationship and run off with your ‘once in a lifetime soul mate’ is that right?
And the regular every day life of paying the bills, working long hours, changing diapers , your MIL berating you, cleaning and waiting for the appliance repairman does nothing to dampen any of your moony eyed feelings ever, is that right?
I’ve loved my DH for 30+ years now both during marriage and friendship but you guys’ gushing descriptions of your relationships makes you seem like insufferable assholes. [/quote]

You are name calling and berating people. Who is the asshole?

My DH and I are soul mates- extremely compatible as friends, coparents and in the bedroom. We both worked from home today and had an afternoon delight. :) Been together 15 years and it still feels exciting and fun. [/quote]

My DH and I are soulmates. I was/am pretty socially awkward and could barely have a conversation with a guy. I have trouble making friends and can't seem to let anyone close except for my mother and sisters. When I met my DH it was such a random chance meeting, but for some reason I wasn't shy with him and could talk to him. It's like I already knew him and was meant to meet him. Being around him was just so easy and felt natural. We've been together for 10 years now and things are still wonderful. We are best friends and have a great sex life. We love seeing each other happy, and he is still the first person I want to experience things with. [/quote]

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