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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I like how it's "so saaaaaad" when you're describing a mom, but when it's a dad, he's just...a dad.[/quote]

Yup. Neither DH nor I want to make lunches, pick out clothes for tomorrow, cook dinner, clean the kitchen... I mean, obviously? Who WANTS to do childcare (which is different than hanging out with your kids in a relaxed context)? [/quote]
Why even have kids then? [/quote]

Not wanting to make lunch has literally nothing to do with how much I love my kids. [/quote]
Who said it does? Projecting much?

I do think it is very sad when people want the fun parts of parenting with none of the mundane, the toughness, the boring moments. It's very unfortunate. [/quote]
Yep. Life happens during the mundane! Every lunch packed, every diaper changed, every dish washed, every butt wiped, every bowl of cereal poured...it's our actions during those mundane moments that build the framework for a future. When your kids see you being there for them in THOSE moments, they'll know you're they're for them. Just being around for the fun stuff? Nope.

I've realized, over the years, that parenting isn't about taking the vacations and having those life-changing talks with your kids. Of course, that's fun. But the REAL stuff happens in the day to day. I can point to 20 different mundane things in our daily routine but are all part of one big "I love you."

Well said. When I talk with my kids about their favorite memories they also bring up stuff that I had no idea was important. Like letting them help cook dinner or the time we ran through the sprinklers. Family vacation to Mexico? No, they barely remember it. They also tell me that things are are troubling them during these quiet moments at home. Being there day in and out matters.

Parents who want to bypass that and hide out in their office instead? Sad. [/quote][/quote]

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