Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Expectant and Postpartum Moms
Reply to "People are really miffed that we're not finding out the sex"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]I think it's different than keeping the name secret. I do find out the sex because it's part of the package of info the doctor's office has for me and I don't see a good reason to turn down any of it. I don't keep it secret from others, that seems like it would be manipulative if the only purpose is to get gender neutral gifts or something (no "gender reveal" parties, it's not "gender" anyway, it's just information we have that we will share if asked). But keeping the name secret is the only sane thing to do! Otherwise half your friends and family will try to argue you out of it, and you'll always know who hated your kid's name. Once it's a done deal on the birth certificate, 99% of people will just say "oh what a nice name" or keep silent.[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
