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[quote=Anonymous][quote]If you, as a man, sit around and wait for women to approach you online, you will wait a long time, and the quality of the women who approach you will not be as high as if you met them in person. [/quote]

In the previous post, I just told you that women approach me on Match.com quite often (weekly).  Therefore, I am not waiting for anyone.  You have no idea about the quality of women you approach me or anyone else online.  However, from what you have posted, it is likely any one of them is of a much higher quality than you.

[quote]What you need to change, most of all, is your mental state. You think approaching women in the "wrong" place like Safeway will lead to trouble. [/quote]

A different poster discussed approaching women in the wrong place.  You need to read each post to ensure you respond to the correct one.

[quote]This is the kind of mentality that actually will lead to trouble (or at the very least, lack of success) for you, because women can smell the stink of your "I know she's going to think I'm creepy and reject me" anxious mentality a mile away. 
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Again, wrong poster.  However, I doubt you are an expert in what type of "mental state" would lead to trouble.  If you are qualified to provide opinions on a person's mental state, please tell us what these qualifications are.

[quote]You should get yourself into a mental state such that you believe that you are a great guy and it's perfectly OK for you to approach women anywhere. This will even help you in your interactions with women whom you have met online. [/quote]

Again, you do not appear qualified to offer anyone advice on their mental state.

[quote]It should not be a surprise to you that women are attracted to confidence. Sadly, it's obvious that you don't have it.[/quote]

You do not have any idea of how much confidence I have.

You cannot even discern one poster from another.  Work (hard) on improving your reading skills before you offer any advice on dating.  The poor quality of your posts makes it difficult to support anything you put in them.[/quote]

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