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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The weekends are her only opportunity to host play dates with her children's friends.  Probably the neighbors have her kids over during the week.  Honestly, I think it's sad that she can't find a way to fit in some cousin/sister time, too, but she may feel obligated to reciprocate with her neighbors and nurture her children's friendships.  Plus, you really don't know how long the neighbors are at her house, it could be for a much shorter time than you think.  I think you are better off dropping this with her because you have asked her multiple times about getting together and her response has been to send you pictures of her getting together with the neighbors.  You and your kids deserve better, Op.[/quote]

I also feel this that with 60 hr/week FT job, OP's sis does not have enough time to spare to begin with.  And with the little time she has left, she made it clear to exclude OP.  Informal visit or not, she does not want to do any sister time.  I am sorry to hear that she even does not want to do the "cousin time", but that kind of tells me she really does not want to spend time with OP.  Would you want to hang out with her still  knowing that she is very much likely emotionally unavailable?  Agree with the above post that you and your kids deserve better, OP.  
It hurts but I hope you can made a peace with this soon.
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