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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No thanks. Check out this thread where female lawyers exhibit stockholm syndrome by setting up working a few days after birth as a good thing (or in one case 6 hours delivery) and people mentioning that law firms deliberately staff female lawyers on difficult cases while pregnant to test their "dedication". Forgive me but I want my daughter to be able to rest after delivery and not view this sadistic work ethic as something to be proud of. https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/75/798539.page[/quote] I'm a lawyer and have never experienced any of that. My job was super flexible when I had kids (and I was on forced bed rest with twins so I worked out of the office for three months before they were born and then took three months of maternity leave). I came back in exactly the same place I left, not behind at all. My maternity leave was fully paid. I have only continued to make more and more money as time goes on. I have a flexible job now where I can work from home, take half days, take time off, never work weekends, etc., and still make really good money. [/quote]
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