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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It amuses me that the invariable reaction to "older men, younger women" is "do you want to be his nurse?"

If the guy needs a nurse, why is it different if he is 15 years older than you versus the same age as you? Seems like it would be worse (more difficult) if you were the same age as him, because then you're old and tired, too.

I think the real message is that women want to discard a man once he is old and useless, regardless of any age difference.

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Is this really difficult for you to understand? Because most people, male or female, don’t want to spend the prime, youthful years of their life caretaking and unable to enjoy an active life with their spouse. [/quote]

Apparently it is really difficult for you to understand math. If he is 15 years older than you, and he needs "caretaking" starting at age 65, then at that point you are in your 50s, [i]not [/i]in your "prime, youthful years".

And let's say you met when you were 30 and he was 45. Apparently the 20 years he spent with you before he needed "caretaking" was wasted, and he did not earn - through investing in your mutual 20 year relationship - any right to care or consideration from you when he got old.

Again, it is obvious that the female viewpoint is "what comes before means nothing, you are only as good as what you can do for me [i]right now[/i]."[/quote]

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