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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He wants to have sex with you. Perhaps on a regular basis.[/quote]

Is that pretty much for certain? Because I fantasize about having sex with him ALL of the time. However, I want him to be the aggressor.

I only feel sexy if the man is aggressive and just has to have me. Otherwise I hold back and I feel shy and reserved. But if he is aggressive it just turns me on so much. That's the problem here. I don't know what sign he wants from me but I want some more undeniable signs from him. I do make eyes at him, but because I am shy I'm not sure how obvious I am being.

I wish he would just wait for a private moment, corner me and kiss me! I wish he would grab me and objectify me a bit and order me arund. That would turn me on so much! Not waiting for a green light, but assuming that I want him...because I do.

Maybe it's bad but I love the attention. I hope he is not just playing around and passing the time but really wants me. (Maybe he's broken up with his girlfriend? But I don't want to ask because I don't want to show that much interest)[/quote]

Ok OP I'll work with you here. I think I get you. I'm the poster from 4/4 10:06

You are passive and a bit shy to flirt back but not shutting him down. Seems like he gets you too. You don't want him to stop, that's clear to him (and me). You want him to initiate more than this flirty banter because that turns you on (nothing wrong with this). You're a "good girl", probably raised this way culturally/religiously (that's ok). 
You're fantasizing about being intimate with him (you have a pulse girl). Your " good girl" values or guilt are questioning his intentions (normal). You won't know what his intentions are unless you ask him if he is still in a relationship. In order for this to happen, you need to have an actual conversation. This probably can't happen at work. Here's options:

1. Ask him to have coffee with you because see #2
2. He's not going to catch the elevator door and come in to passionately kiss you (as hot as this fantasy is)
3. He's probably enjoying the sexual tension that he's building in you (he sees it and it's making him crazy)
4. Play the game better than him. Build up your confidence at home, alone, fantasizing about him and think about that the next time he's teasing you (because that's what he's doing). You know what you need to do in a subtle way to react to his touch or gaze. Breathy voice, touch him back, maybe close your eyes when he touches you. 
5. Play him...he'll make that next move if you can hold out longer than him. 
6. Most importantly, are you absolutely sure you are DTF only? 
7. If so, proceed with 1-6 because the sex will be over the top and he may fall deeply in love with you for beating him at his game.

You've got this! Add a little something to the mix, every single time. Look hot, be hot and rock his world. Have fun!!!

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