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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Man here, I usually ask to see a picture of the AP so I can feel jealous of my friend who is actually having hot sex again![/quote]

That's the spirit.  I suspect it scares many women on DCUM, but most men aren't going to police fidelity among their male friends. 
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Another man and plus 2.  Thing is, most men totally understand the urge to cheat and, if you are like most men in a low sex marriage, fight the urge constantly.  So when told about infidelity, it's more like "yeah, I totally get it"

Where the advice comes in is when it's a long term affair with a homewrecker, and the advice is more like " be careful" or "it's not worth blowing up your family."  It's never, "you are a moral abomination and we can't be friends"[/quote]

My husband's brother told him not to get caught. That's it. My husband went to him for advice and rather than say "this is wrong, you have a great wife and marriage, work on that, figure it out" he said "don't get caught." We are divorced now. [/quote]

How did you catch him?[/quote]

He got a call/texts at a strange hour, I asked about it, his answer seemed off, I looked at our phone bill, called the number it was a woman and the rest unfurled from there. This woman was the second affair, he went to his brother during the first one when he was having a crisis of conscience. We had a good marriage, no kids yet, lots of sex, laughs, fun, money. [/quote]

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