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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't think a backstory is necessary because this happens in so many families, and I'm looking for advice from people who have been there. When someone in your family has been accused of sexual abuse, how do you move forward in regards to the alleged perpetrator, if there is the slightest possibility that he's innocent? [b]I want to shut this perpetrator out of our lives[/b]. Dh isn't ready to do that as he sees reason to doubt the victim's story (I don't). What do you do? How do you deal with the alleged abuser when he calls, wants to get together, etc? He will always deny this, there will never be definitive proof, so I don't see this situation as ever being resolved. Dh isn't necessarily backing him no matter what; he just doesn't want to shun a possibly innocent person. [/quote] If the perpetrator were your son would you shut him out indefinitely? [i]"Don't come around, don't call - you're dead to us."[/i][/quote]
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