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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Anyone in a similar situation to PP have a story for him of something that actually worked? Not what seems like it ought to work, but real life success stories? By similar situation, I think a couple of the critical variables are:

1. Kids are beyond toddler age. (So we know it's not just because little kids are exhausting & post-pregnancy hormones).

2. Long period of limited sex -- i.e. less than once a week.

3. Relationship is more than, say, 5 years (so we know that novelty isn't the solution). [/quote]

We all know what happened.

OP is probably a nice enough guy but in his younger days probably didn't have a lot of dating or sexual options among women.

He met his wife and connected with her and she was probably one of the first, if not the very first, women that he was actually able to develop a long term relationship with.

The relationship progressed to the point where she laid down her own ultimatum of getting married so, having no better options, and finally getting sex on a more or less regular basis, he proposed.

She had her own issues and while she may have enjoyed the early sex that wasn't really why she wanted to marry him.  He didn't really set her heart or her panties all aflutter.

But, he was a nice guy, had good career prospects, and she could see he would be a reliable family man who would take care of her and the kids she wanted to have.

In his mind, he finally hit the jackpot,and probably overlooked any flaws or misgivings.

In her mind, she "settled."

Op's wife never treated him as a full partner, because in her mind, he never really was.  He was simply a vehicle she chose to carry out her imagined "life plan."

Now he is an annoying inconvenience pestering him for sex that she doesn't want to have with him, and never really did.

This story is repeated over and over and over and every word is true.[/quote]

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