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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]or you missed mine.

sex is a want
[b]so is emotional support, most women get it from friends[/b]

It's okay to have wants but don't act like you can't control your actions because your wants are not met. [/quote]

So you're fine with him outsourcing his sexual wants just like you outsource your emotional wants, then?[/quote]

What you're missing is that women want emotional intimacy with their husbands/life partners and that having friends does not take its place.  For a husband to say, she can unload on her and I don't need to bother to engage emotionally, is exactly what's going to torpedo her desire for physical intimacy. Likewise, a woman who does not make any effort toward physical intimacy can expect to find her husband less inclined toward emotional intimacy. To put it another way, it feels just as lonely for a woman to not be able to talk to or be heard by her spouse as it is for a husband to feel that his wife never wants to have sex. [/quote]

[b]DP.  You're pretty obtuse.  Wifey can put out and put out, and DH can jettison the emotional support.  It happens both ways.[/b]

What you're missing is that the woman invariably expects the "emotional intimacy" to continue even after she loses interest in sex. She stops having sex, or reduces it to once a month starfish, and then she's baffled why he doesn't give a shit about providing her with "emotional support" and listening to her incessant stream of consciousness bullshit.[/quote][/quote][/quote]

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