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[quote=Anonymous]Does he have reason to be paranoid that you would threaten abuse in a custody situation? Have you talked about divorce before or threatened it toward him? It seems really weird that the cops would suggest HE protect himself if you feel (and expressed) that he is being abusive toward you. Anyway, I agree this goes well beyond anything that can be fixed and you two shouldn’t be together. I don’t have specific divorce attorney recommendations, sorry. Wishing you the best. [/quote]

When he was rough with our preschooler, I told him if he did anything remotely like that again I'd leave and take the kids. I've also told him *he* needs to leave if he can't get the anger and abuse under control. Other than that, I haven't threatened divorce. He's the one who brings it up occasionally, and accuses me of working behind the scenes to ensure I get full custody. Meanwhile he's been "documenting" our conversations (inaccurately). I've done nothing of the sort. I didn't want to get divorced. I wanted him to stop being abusive.

He convinced the cop he spoke with that he was the aggrieved party, so she suggested he get a camera to protect himself.

Let me amend my thought on the camera - I don't want to do the camera thing really, but if he has camera footage that shows what HE wants it to show, then I probably should too...?[/quote]

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