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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Women who are better looking, more confident/outgoing/secure in their attractiveness, around more eligible men, and more interested in dating will have an easier time. All things held equal, however, a lot is good fortune.

I think a lot also has to do with knowing the demographic you appeal to. I have had an easier time in love than my sister. I am taller, thinner, and more conventionally attractive. But she has a prettier face and is more outgoing and social. Crucially, however, we have similar tastes in men, but those men tend to go for women more like me. I think she adopted my tastes without considering if they would work for her. She would have done better, for instance, pursuing men who are more likely to value curves.

But a lot of it is still luck IMO.

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There is a certain kind of girl/woman who has a lot of luck in terms of dating and marrying early.

From what I observe:

-conventionally attractive. Talk to medium height, thin, natural curves to be feminine but not too curvy
- styles like a “basic b*tch. Conservative and feminine clothing that accentuates body and conveys sexuality without being too in your face. Subtle makeup that highlights features,long straight hair, toned body
- conventional interests. Don’t be quirky. Goths, comic book nerds and geeky girls do not apply.
- be submissive and feminine, no loud mouth feminists or super smart nerdy girls who can out do the guys socially or professionally.
- know how to be subtly sexy, be coy and girly. Project the female energy so guys pick up on it.

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This is overall silly nonsense. Getting married younger has much more to do with “dating with intention” in your younger years. Find the serious, mature, family-minded young men (YES THEY EXIST!!!) and seek them out. It’s going to mean bypassing the cool party guys, but that’s ok. The list you gave is basically the “party girls” and they do not get married young, at all. But I know loads and loads of plain Janes (like myself!), geeks, smart girls, ambitious girls, girls with a few extra pounds, and girls who have never flirted in their life, who were married between 23-27 and are still married. [b]Btw the trick to still being happily married into your 30s and avoiding divorce is don’t be too quick to pop out a kid. Wait at least 2-3 years[/b]. [/quote]

Also - be kind and considerate. [/quote]

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