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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here-  finally talked out the happy ending with DH - and he admitted he had searched for a happy ending parlor and even driven in a car and looked for it, and if he had found the massage parlor that he would have had it- but that he didn't find it and so he never had the happy ending....

Does this seem plausible?

Context that DH rejected me for sex this week, said he would have sex with me the next day, then never did...

And he confessed to masturbating more than having sex with me...

I felt so rejected and hurt....I told him I would ideally like mohave sex twice a week, not once a month...that I don't want to be in a platonic relationship... My DH suggested that I masturbate to take off "the edge" and then said he would be fine if I had another sex partner....

I got really angry and we finally did have sex but I felt like I had to beg for it....

Am I totally being gaslighted???  I feel so low in confidence being with a DH who doesn't want to have sex with me and has sex with me after I get angry.....
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Yes.  Yes, you are totally being gaslighted.  Why or what is really going on is not something you should waste any more energy on.  At least your DH has clearly shown you through his behavior who he has.

Get a lawyer and start getting your life on track for a divorce (financial, career, childcare network, friend network).  File when YOU are ready.  You deserve better than what your dH is offering (any human being deserves better). [/quote]

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