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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just goes to show that dress size and sex life frequency and intencity don’t really matter.
I am sorry this happened to you. Desire for new things is human nature and maybe you should use this situation as a push for new things for you, too. 
A committed yet open relationship sounds fun![/quote]

Oh but they really do matter quite a lot!!
Staying thin and sexually actively does not guarantee faithfulness.
But getting fat an sexless most certainly does guarantee UN-faithfulness.
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+1. I have never cheated, but my wife has all but ended our sexual relationship. Yes we have talked about it. Yes I help around the house, in fact do more than my share. There is a physical and emotional void there that needs to be filled.[/quote]

Are you flirty/romantic? Do you cuddle, hold hands, give nice cards for occasions, etc.? My DH doesn’t do those things and thinks he can just come upstairs at 10pm and say “you wanna?”[/quote]

Yes we cuddle. Yes we hold hands. I got up early today and wiped the sleet off her car while she got ready for work.

I am tired of being taken for granted. The current no-sex arrangement is not sustainable. She is 54 now and wants to be done with sex.[/quote]

It's time for 'the talk'. She has a choice: if she wants the sexual relationship done then either it's divorce time or it's time for DADT. You will respect her and be discreet but you are not ready to be done having sex. Tell her to pick one or reopen for business.[/quote]

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