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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Get several neighbors together and have a friendly meeting with the police.[/quote]
I've spoken to the police a few times about him.

As for the others here, they may be affected by him but aren't willing to complain to the HOA board members or call the police for that matter. They don't want to become involved. I've been the most vocal about him because I really do want him to get the help he needs. He has no business living alone and, despite what I was told, is unable to take care of himself.

He ended up in my condo complex because his family had no where else to put him. He lived with his brother an hour or so away from here for several years until he sexually assaulted his niece and two of her friends. He was arrested and convicted of 4th degree sexual assault and the friends' families pushed for a no contact order so they brought him here because his sister and brother-in-law live in the immediate area. For several months, he stayed with his sister and brother-in-law but because they have young children themselves they didn't want him staying with them on a permanent basis. So, his step-dad purchased a 1 bed, 1 bath condo in our complex when he had the chance. (Why his mom and step-dad didn't want him living with them is beyond me.)

He was also arrested and convicted of destruction of property. Due to his volatile temper, it's the main reason why others here choose to not get involved.

He has a strange fixation with me. He's flirted with me and thinks I'm lying when I tell him I don't speak or understand Spanish. (I may have a Hispanic last name, but I'm unable to speak, read and write it because I never grew up in that environment. My mom and dad divorced when I was quite young.) Obviously, he thinks I'm playing hard to get and I'm not. He's stalked me twice as I walked my dogs and I ended up filing a police report. His family retaliated by taking him to the police station, filing a police report and slapping me with a TRO (temporary restraining order) saying I was the one harassing him. I ended up in court and the judge ended up throwing it out because his claim lacked any merit and he couldn't ultimately prove any of it. (Apparently, the judge saw past the BS pretty quickly saying she didn't even need to hear me speak to know that. She only let me speak out of courtesy.)

I don't trust anyone in his family.

When the unit was sold, the owner at the time thought she was selling to a widowed man in his 70s who'd be living in the unit because that's what she was told. She found out that wasn't actually the case when she got to the closing table. Once she learned the truth, she felt bad about it.

Not to mention, after he moved in the sister told us he was actually bi-polar and would be eventually working at one of the nearby factories in the industrial park across the way. The mother even confirmed he'd be working and her son even boasted about getting a job and starting in the upcoming weeks. It's pretty obvious now that it was all a lie and he's total incapable of working.[/quote]

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