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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hi OP, 19:35 here from yesterday. Thanks for responding. I had to look up polyamorous. I know I'll get slammed for this, but that's a pretty messed up lifestyle, and not at all in the same category as LGBTQ. Your daughter doesn't have issues with gay people; she just has a working value system. Good lord OP, you made it sound like she was homophobic. I can see why your daughter is craving a more conservative/religious lifestyle if you've been teaching her that being polyamorous is a choice to embrace. [/quote]

OP here.  I won't slam you; it's not something I would choose, but I'm not going to denigrate family members who have alternative lifestyles.  It's not as if I've told my DD to go out and be polyamorous.  However, her aunt is happy and living a life that works for her, and that's what matters.  I don't get to choose how the aunt runs her life.  My DD and I have talked before about the challenges we both recognize in the polyamorous lifestyle, and she knows I don't want that for her, or for myself.  It's not like I've gone around saying, "Yay!"  [u]Still, it's important that we continue to embrace family, regardless of the choices they make that aren't harming us.[/u]

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Not true. When your DD has children, she has every right not to embrace her Aunt, or anyone else who's behavior she doesn't embrace. [/quote]

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