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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m not there for his wife. I’m there for my friend of over 25 years. The drama is hers. I don’t text, call, or any of it, but will sent a very very occasional text. He’s going to need his real friends in a few years.

I don’t buy into drama, but I do believe in friendship. [/quote]

IA with all of this.

Sending an occasional text is maybe once a month or every 2 months to just check in.  I don't text daily or weekly (we used to before the marriage and for a bit afterwards) with him because 95% of what he would say in those texts was complaints about his wife.  It's hard to keep offering advice and support to someone who is complaining about a person who hates you and feels threatened by you.

He and I grew up together and have been friends for 25+ years.  I'm not completely giving up on that just because of her.  He's moved out of the area but each time he comes back here for work or to visit family, we meet up for coffee or dinner.  Same with when I'm in his area.

And no, I'm not biding my time until they break up and I swoop in because I'm a lesbian.    [/quote]

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