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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I’m the neat nick wife of the boarderline hoarder who posted earlier, and am replying again because you asked to hear more.

I wonder if it would help to start with some clutter free zones. I would probably want those to be dining room table, kitchen counter, and entire living room (or wherever you hang out as a family). It sounds like laundry is a problem. I have decided that our bedroom is going to have baskets of clean laundry, and I can live with it. Maybe you could have one basket per family member, and the basket simply goes from bedroom to washer to dryer and back to bedroom without stops in between? Forget folding and putting away.

While it sounds like your house is clean (yay!) your DH may not be able to feel the clean due to clutter. Clutter looks the same as dirt to him - stuff that shouldn’t be there. But clutter is bigger and harder to ignore than dirt! Why not take a break on cleaning, and focus on making clutter-free space? See how DH reacts.[/quote]

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