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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You sound dramatic.

I broke two ribs one morning in a horse accident and my DH didn’t react.  We went to a brunch an hour later.  I was in a lot of pain and finally said I had to leave.  He was surprised.  He was less surprised when I went to immediate care the next day and got Xrays.

Is he bad and uncaring?  Of course not, it was up to me to explain, in words, what I felt and needed from him.  Any old “distress” could be a stubbed toe or hit funny bone.  What do you want, him to rush in and sob over your pump knot?[/quote]

Why can't she just want him to say, "Hey, honey, are you okay?"  I mean, that seems like the absolute minimum.  If I heard a loud bang and someone cry out in pain in the office next to mine, I would, at least, call out, "Hey, coworker, you alright?"  Like, who are these people who simply do not acknowledge stuff like this?  If OP was complaining that her husband didn't make a huge fuss and bring her breakfast in bed because she bumped her head, okay, fine, she's too dramatic.  But thinking that someone you live with should care, at least a little, about your physical well-being doesn't seem so unreasonable.  [/quote]
Meh. Some of us don't want people running to check on us every time we get a boo-boo or drop something. If I need you, I'll call you. [/quote]

If you hear a loud crash and scream in your house, you don't check it out?  [/quote]

Nah, I just draw my pistol and shoot through the wall in the direction the scream came from.[/quote]

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