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I’m not sure why my marriage arrangement bothers you so much, because I’m happy. My husband is my husband - we have the house, the cars, the holidays, the vacations, the financial accounts. This is not at risk. We are committed to each other as primary partners. Our kids see a mature, loving partnership based on openness and trust, rather than duplicity and deception, as is the case in cheating relationships. I adore him and he adores me. His occasional dalliance does not negate that.

Are you really wondering about the financial and societal benefits of marriage? That the efforts and energies of two people together is greater than maintaining two separate households? [/quote]

I completely agree with your perspective on marriage. I don't think monogamy is biologically normal and I'm not religious, so why should I give up a great relationship because my man wanted a little new physical excitement?  I used to be devastated when he cheated, like the world ended. Every time I thought of those women and the circumstances around them I'd feel stick to my stomach.

But then I cheated, and now I totally get it. I can 100% understand how me wanting to kiss a new guy doesn't change my love for my partner or the strength of our relationship at all. I can understand now how sometimes it really can just be a physical thing. [/quote]

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