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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would be upset if I wanted to sometimes travel with my boyfriend or spouse on work travel and he did not want me to.

I had a relationship with someone who travelled for work a ton and the fact I could go with him was huge in keeping our relationship strong because it made me resent the work travel less.

However I am an extremely independent traveller and travel alone all the time. I understood that he was potentially working all day and then having dinner with work colleagues without me. I just liked that I could go to a cool city and stay for free (I would fly for free too using his miles) and maybe get to see him a little bit. And hotel sex tends to be fun (though sometimes he was working such long hours that did not happen).

I think it will be hurtful if you say no. I do think it's fine to say you won't be able to see her much because you will be working most of the trip.

I don't see why it should blow your vacation budget.  You just have to pay for her airfare. And then maybe an extra night in the hotel if you guys want to stay an extra night.

And yeah, you should consider taking the red eye back if she doesn't come. [/quote]

You sound smothering. [/quote]

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