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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you still have not answered a lot of important questions and I say this as a mom of a kidf with a similar profile, minus any aggression: 1.) Were you upfront with the nanny about the SN? Does she have experience with autism? Often you pay nannies trained to work with SN more. Is that the case? I aske because if she has the experience and is paid accordingly, then I would be surprised she didn't read signals help diffuse things. 2.) Has your child been aggressive before? 3.) Does your child have a therapist and psychiatrist? if not, get both STAT. If a kid is aggressive at that age, therapy is a must and meds likely too. 4.) The situation needs to be discussed with him when he is calm and sorted through. He/she needs strategies to calm down and to be able to problem solve how to handle the situation differently next time. 5.) You are your child owe the nanny profuse apologies. I would give her a bonus if she plans to stay and strategies and severance if she plans to leave.[/quote]
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