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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yawn, OP, my DH of 20+ years was breaking up with someone he dated for about a year when we met. In fact, she used to call him and leave messages and when we moved out of the area, still tried to contact him. For all I know he had her bent over the kitchen counter the night before our first date. But who cares about things like that. So you never dated more than one person at a time or did anything you would not be comfortable telling your husband. Leave it in the past.[/quote]

The difference is that it sounds like you knew about it at the time and got to make decisions about the relationship with that knowledge. OP didn't have the same benefit. [/quote]

Who cares? By saying she is unhappy not having that knowledge, she’s implying she would’ve made a different choice. OP, do you wish you hadn’t married your DH? If you had it to do over again, would you have said no because he was going to break up with someone instead of he had just broken up with someone? Or would that even be good enough, because no one wants to be the rebound? OP, do you really wish you’d never accepted that date now? Because if you still would’ve gone out with him, not knowing is moot. If you are wishing away your married life, after 14 years I’d be more upset at that than what DH said or didn’t say. [/quote]

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