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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He didn’t by you full stop.
It’s bit because he turned 30 .

It’s bit because you leaving him  devastated him so much  he quickly married the next.

He didn’t want you.  Deal with it.  Learn to put less value in a man so when’s one rejects you it’s not so devastating you need to tell yourself lies to cope.

He didn’t want to marry you, Maybe the next guy will.[/quote]

I disagree, and I have been through this.  I broke up with him, because in my heart, I knew he would not make me happy, in the long run.  It devastated both of us, because we were so much in love.  We probably will always think of each other as the loves of our lives - but, it was not practical for us to be together.  He married the next one that came along for a few reasons:  He was almost 30, and she was older (by a couple years), so she wanted to be married yesterday.  She gave him some prerequisites that he had to accomplish before they married.  He did not want to go through another tremendous loss, so he satisfied the prerequisites. All (all) of his closest friends were married, he had been in several of their weddings, which had an impact. He thought we were going to settle down, he was already of the mindset to settle down.  When she came along, she and he were in position to get married - not necessarily to each other, but they both wanted to be married, to settle down - it was timing, along with not wanting to go through such a huge loss again.  [/quote]

Oh sweetheart, you can keep telling yourself this to make you feel better since you are the one who let HIM get away. But that regret you are feeling won't always be with him the way it will with you, if it exists for him at all at this point. He found a woman who WANTED him (and whom he wanted enough to CHASE (i.e., the prerequisites you mentioned required him to show that he was willing to go after her). I've no doubt that he wished for a time it was you. But you settled that matter and he moved on.
Best of luck to you as you seek to do the same.[/quote]

I have it by best source possible that my post is exactly what happened. Why is it so difficult for you to accept? Are you the next one that came along, and he was going to marry you no matter what? You act like it. No need to be sorry forms, at all. If you were a nicer person, I would actually be sorry for you.  Instead I will say: may you get everything you deserve. Oh, and good luck! [/quote]

My god! You are you full of yourself.  Your ex and friend are lying to you to spare your feelings. Pp is right if he wanted to marry you he would have. That’s not mean that’s reality.[/quote]

My God! You are really taking this news hard, other PP! Are you the next one that came along? Seems so. No reason to lie here, contrary to your overly heart felt belief. Wow. It’s okay. OP asked for examples, and a real life one has been given. Just because the story hits close to home for you, does not mean it is not true. Too bad for you. [/quote]

Op didn’t ask for examples. The fact that you believe this makes me question your grasp on reality regarding what you think  about what your ex told you. Why is it so important for you to believe your version of the story?[/quote]

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