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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not sure why inquiring “What do you bring to the table” is so bad? Isn’t that how we size up a partner? Looks, personality, etc[/quote]

According to my dad men who ask this are poor or poverty minded, and are not secure in their ability to progress in and maintain a career.  My sisters and I have all married well.[/quote]

Nope. A man who asks  “What do you bring to the table” is making an intelligent decision about his life partner. Men are not required to accept a woman "no matter what" and it is stupid to try and shame them with this "you must be insecure" nonsense.

[b]Would you seriously want your son to marry a girl who brought nothing to the table - no education, minimum wage job, fat and unattractive[/b]?[/quote]

NP - you're moving the goal posts here.  The OP asked about job/career.  You're adding fat, unattractive and uneducated.  Any of these three things are deal breakers, yes.

We don't care about you job/career.  [/quote]

No, it is relevant to the question of what she brings to the table. If she doesn't have a career but is hot, then she brings something to the table.[/quote]

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