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[quote=Anonymous]Unless you’ve been morbidly obese, not just overweight or obese (and I have), I don’t think people understand what it means to truly be invisible to the opposite sex. It’s like you’re not even in the room. It’s not just men who don’t see you- Sales people treat you differently. Waiters, the valet, the dog groomer. Everyone. When you’re big like that, you just get used to (and comfortable) not existing. 270 pounds on a woman is very big. What kind of men are going to pursue a woman that size? Do you even want the kind of guy who does? The dating pool isn’t just small, it’s like 2 or 3 people big. Imagine you at normal size only had 2-3 people as possible partners. Totally understandable why marriage wasn’t in the cards or even a date. But, I would hesitate mention being fat since people are so judgemental many men would be afraid of the woman getting fat again. [/quote]
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