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[quote=Anonymous]It is worth making a big deal about this. I didn't understand it at the time, but I'm convinced now that my parents' marriage has always been more contentious than it would be had my grandmother (my dad's mom) not stayed with us for 1 month+ every time she visited. After a particularly difficult visit from ILs when I was in my third trimester with DS and DD was 2 y.o., I informed DH that he would be taking a few days anytime they visited. Weirdly, they have visited less frequently since then >:) I don't know what to do about this particular visit, but I think your leaving the house is better than kicking them to an AirBnB. And DH should definitely take time off to act as buffer if he wouldn't already be around. [/quote]
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