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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honestly, she sounds manic. Does she have MH issues? Depression and mood swings?[/quote]

OP here. Not since we have been married but the last 4 months she has acted way out of character.  She went to see a therapist but she said she was fine.  The balance of the kids and making sure the DW is not having mental issues. Im just tired.[/quote]

Based on experience (female here), your wife's affair has taken her whole life over and[b] she has no control of her actions or all the lies that she believes are the truths[/b].  When I had a double life (married/kids and an affair), the excitement of the affair was a different reality from being a spouse with kids.  I thought I was "in love" with my AP and got a divorce from the XH.  The worst mistake I ever did.  Five months after moving out and selling our home, my AP and I ended.  The worst part was how my kids were impacted from having two homes and seeing that I was the individual who caused this.  I lacked the "emotional" emotion to my XH during the time because we both worked and had kids.  There is not one day that does not go by that I could go back to my original life and work it out with my XH.  I truly hope that the DW above has thought this affair completely through.  For me, I was selfish and unable to control the new emotions of the AP.  It was fun but that is not real life - a loving husband and children are what matters.   [/quote]

FALSE - you and the OP's wife have COMPLETE control over your actions and the lies you chose to tell.  Take some responsibility. [/quote]

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