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[quote=Anonymous]I'm a divorced guy who was the default parent before my divorce and 50/50 now. I think that the list is a realistic representation of everything. Especially if a kid has special needs, but even if not, there is just a ton to do. As for OP, I expect she will end up divorced like me. If you're so focused on your career, and keeping track of everything on a score keeping basis, your resentment will only grow and grow, especially when you misscore a situation (which both sides do). I think you can make the two working full time parent situation work if you are both devoted to help each other as much as possible and presume the other person is doing what they can. But I don't get the sense that is your situation. I don't mean to be critical, it just is what happened to me, so I wanted to share my perspective. All that said, I love being a dad, mental load et al., and wouldn't give it up for the world, even if I had known it would lead to divorce. [/quote]
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