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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Why? Because I speak the hard truth? I am not the one bankrupting myself to keep things "50/50." I married a great guy 30 plus years ago, so I have 100 percent access to our kids, who are about to launch into adulthood. No wasting money to divorce lawyers -- instead it goes into family enrichment like vacations and college tuition funds. A much better use of family resources than Mr. 50/50. Who you marry can make the biggest difference in your life. As Mr. 50/50 is finding out the hard way, crappy wife, crappy life. hi [/quote] NP. You sound insufferable.[/quote] But yet, I am not divorced, and my kids aren't shuffled from house to house so things can be "50/50." They come from a happy home, not a brloken mess. I get angry when adults are so selfish and don't put their children's well being above their own desires. Marriage can be hard work (although mine had been challenging only a few years out of the more than 30) and people give up too easily. [/quote] If one parent doesn't feel 50/50 is good for the kids, that parent needs to make the sacrifice of being the visiting parent and let the other parent have primary custody. Its the reality of divorce. You cannot say you do not agree with 50/50 but then demand 90/10 with the other parent being a visitor in the kids lives.[/quote]
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