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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Note: The standard is "the best interests of the CHILD." The standard is NOT "what is fair for the parents." [/quote] 50/50 IS best for the children.[/quote] Not necessarily. I got off my career path to develop a flexible work plan that allowed me to work and be the primary caregiver. I was the caregiver when they were little, and now after school. I help w/ the homework, I take kids to lessons, I bring things to school, etc. It is not 50/50 in terms of contact time even if the overall investment is 50/50. DH's investment is more monetary, and mine is more caregiving. I make a lot less than DH because of our arrangement. If we ever divorced, 50/50 would not be a fair custody arrangement. [/quote]
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