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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is the gift card from just your mom or “from Mom and Stepdad”? If from both it is very rude to hand you a $75 gift to share with your DH while siblings open up $1000+ gifts. How awkward. I can’t believe your mom just sits there and is fine with this.[/quote]

You need to read the thread more closely. OP has stated that it's her stepdad's money but "it wouldn't hurt for him to treat her the same financially". So it's clear that she feels entitled to his money but without good reason. People like the OP are the reason why we withhold gifting our biograndkids just because we also dont want to give anything to the non-bio grandkids. I don't know where this bizarre entitlement comes from but as it exists, as shown by OP.
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What is a “non bio grandkid”?[/quote]

I know! She sounds horrid.

They are grandkids. Period.[/quote]

Not really.

I know of several people whose children had stepchildren (I suppose these would be non-bio grandkids). The marriages didn't work out and there was a divorce and despite being "stepgrandparents" for twenty years with regular and generous relationships with the kids, the kids still drifted out of their lives. Divorce does funny things. That's just the reality of it.

I know I certainly wouldn't consider step grandkids in the same light as genuine grandkids.

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