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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I'm surprised at some of the responses. It's not that I "care" per se that he has plans. We certainly do separate things all the time with our friends. We've just never in all our years of marriage unilaterally decided one of us was heading out for hours on a holiday morning. He got mad at me when I showed surprised, then anger, that he never even thought to check in with me. To me, that's just common courtesy. For the record, I would have said, of course, go ahead. But I was never even consulted when he chides me all the time for way lesser (i.e. RSVPing our daughter for a birthday party she's invited to. Yes, he expects to "consulted" on those.)

[b]And yes, PP. We are hosting. His friends. Which I will now be prepping by myself apparently[/b].[/quote]

No you aren’t. You CAN’T do that. Even his friends will think you a weird doormat if they come in from golfing to a meal prepared by the woman who didn’t get to go golfing and instead stayed home with the kid - cooking. Tell your husband to pick out a restaurant and be done with it.

Honestly if my husband had ever told me that he was going to go golfing with his buds while I was cooking for the whole party I would have had a locksmith come over to change the locks to lock his azz out. And that would be me showing restraint. [/quote]

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