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[quote=Anonymous]We hit a low point in our marriage when our kids were young and I just felt too needed by everything in our lives (small kids, mental load of parenting, a needy husband, work, etc. etc. etc.). I rallied and kept the sex at 1-2 x/ week but it was a lot of mental effort for me to do that. Things got so much better once they were a little older (and my libido strongly improved in my late 30s/ early 40s - so it's more like 2-4x/ week). I still hate to talk about things past 10 pm so don't read into that. So as a been-there-done-that person, focus on what you feel you need and get your wife to agree to have sex once per week (pick a night and know that's your night). After you get back in the groove, hopefully you can bump that up. Don't try to talk about things at bedtime. Your wife gets irritated and you feel rejected.[/quote]
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