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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If the situation were reversed, maybe a man would reconsider screwing around with another man's wife.  Homewrecker women however, are another breed all together.  They will do just about anything to "win."  Truly a disgusting kind of person, who could care less about her AP's family.[/quote]

Weird how you give the benefit of the doubt to men but not women. Anyone who cheats on their spouse is trash. Anyone who knowingly gets involved with a married person is also trash. That goes double when there are kids involved.[/quote]

Right?  OP is worried her husband will cheat, but all the focus is on the potential other woman, not on her husband.  Newsflash: the other woman never promised to be faithful to you.  Your husband did.  If he cheats, it's because he is a grown man who decided to cheat, not because some "homewrecker" made him do it.  He has the same amount of agency. [/quote]

NP - As a woman who gave birth to my own children, I could NEVER imagine doing something as stupid as having an affair to jeopardize their well-being.  So I agree that women (especially those who are married with their own children) who seek out men who have wives and children are a special kind of awful.  I'm not saying men aren't just as disgusting for cheating.  Maybe I should post in the controversial relationship beliefs thread  :D [/quote]

I am not sure how having an affair jeopardizes children. Children shouldn’t have knowledge of their parents’ sex lives regardless of being happily or unhappily married or cheating. If there is cheating, the marriage is already bad and likely going to end in divorce anyway, I do not think cheating alone causes a divorce. And how the parents handle a divorce is what jeopardizes children’s well being. And they should never know all the factors that led to a divorce. [/quote]

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