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[quote=Anonymous]This is going to kill your marriage slowly and it will die from a million little paper cuts. You need to understand that kids will only magnify anything he does or doesn't do that you don't like (and visa versa). This would be a deal breaker for me personally as I get stressed and anxious in cluttered spaces. My husband has an area of our bedroom on his side where he literally just piles clothing, books etc and organizes it once a weekend. I can't directly see it so that is our compromise. He has a basket in the kitchen for mail and one by our bed for lotion, nail trimmers etc. Over time he has grown to love my organization because he always knows where something is and isn't searching for it around the house. The difference is, my DH knew i was like this when we got married and I knew he liked to pile up things. We developed a strategy that worked because we BOTH wanted it to work. [/quote]
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