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Reply to "Marriage counselor told us we need to make time for us"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm not going to jump down your throat because I'm sure you're sincere. But I think you should consider the possibility that your husband is not making these suggestions thinking they would be "punishing" the kids. I'm sure he feels that these changes would be good for the entire family. And he is not without reason to think so. An occasional date night can be great, but it won't make the consistent time for you to help you two restore your bond. And reconfiguring 5 to 10% of the chores responsibility is only going to have a small effect on the margins. The changes he is seeking are more directed to carving out a consistent time for you two to be together. It seems important to him to try to prioritize time with you. That seems unlikely to be bad for the kids.[/quote]
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