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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]All: don't give up. Once you meet someone, be upfront. Share that your kids come first, and that if they aren't up for the journey, then they can hit the road. As a single father in his 30's, I'd understand. With my career, 50% custody, and all the other intricacies of my life, I'd totally understand.  Out time is limited.[/quote]

Can I ask you something?  
I am a single mom of 3, work fulltime and have full custody.  So my plate is really full.  Only  thing I miss is physical intimacy. 
With my stats, I only expect to find a few times a month NSA type of arrangement with a guy.  What decent man would go for that?  And if so, why?[/quote]

Before I answer, would you be open to a real relationship? Or are you only interested in a fwb because of your "full plate?"[/quote]

Back to answer your question.  Would love a partner who truly loves me but I can also accept that such may not happen for me.
FWB may be all I can hope for.  I have not tested if I am made for such arrangement because deep down I am a relationship person.

Now I don't know if I even answered your question ...[/quote]

You answered it, sorta. I wouldn't say "such may not happen to me" because you never know. You seem to have a lot going for you, with the kiddos, the full time gig, and all your other responsibilities. Men like independent women.

If you have a FWB, stick with him long term. Some FWB relationships have great potential for LTR's. Just make sure you select a FWB that has personality, is employed, and is a great lay.

As I mentioned previously, women that have been married and have children, have a different take on life. They are more mature, bold, and don't beat around the bush.  Some men love this in the women they date.[/quote]

I just got home from visiting my FWB. He has become LTR, over the last several years. We caught up about our week apart, went straight to his giant beautiful bed, he made love to me in the best most delicious and fun way. The only kind of love making you can do when you haven’t seen one another in a while and miss each other. Something to be said for that. Then we laughed and talked, went out for burgers downtown, and I dropped him of at his house. Now I’m home, very happy, kids are asleep in bed, and it’s back to usual life. It can be done, people. I highly recommend something similar to single parents. [/quote]

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