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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP: my teen aged DDs were seasoned travelers but on an extended trip at about the week point like your ILs they just wanted familiarity. They found a place called Johnny Rockets (it truly wasn’t THE chain. I stomped off angry that they weren’t taking in all the culture etc etc. That recharged them and changed mood for all. Why not make tomorrow a super simple ‘familiar’ day for them. Your vision of breezing through all the sights and sounds obviously is not theirs. They are thrilled to be included so embrace that and see the trip from their eyes as much as you can. [/quote]

I will try to do that for them. It’s a good idea.

[b]This trip really was meant to be for them. [/b]They kept talking about wanting to go to London and Rome and were telling all their friends how amazing it is that we organized this trip. I never got the impression they thought being with our toddler was a hindrance; if anything they keep wanting more time with her. I think they just underestimated how unfamiliar everything would be (even in London!) and are overwhelmed. My MIL is significantly overweight and said her feet were swollen after 2 days. We’ve been really trying to keep things slow for them, especially after hearing that. [/quote]

Huh. For some reason, that did not come across at all in your original post ...  :roll:

Maybe try to remember that this trip is for them, and it sounds like they are very grateful to you and DH for planning it. Besides, it's not like this is your first time across the pond (as you told us in exhaustive detail), so a) they aren't ruining a once-in-a-lifetime trip for you and b) why WOULDN'T the more experienced traveler(s) in the group be the de facto leaders?
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