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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I met DH when his kids were 2 and 5. His wife gets alimony until she remarries it engages in a marriage like relationship. She’s not stupid—she and he BF have been together for about 10yrs now but they don’t live together. We had an open discussion about this when we started to get serious. It was part of his baggage. I decided that the person who honors his obligations and treats his children as a priority was a value I wanted in my spouse. Child support eventually ended. His salary continued to rise and her alimony remained the same. It’s just another bill now. He has always carried insurance for both CS and Alimony in case of disability. I was upfront with him that if he lost his job, I would cover CS but not alimony. [/quote] I feel sorry for you for being so dumb.[/quote]
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