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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If a parent has to use money to motivate a player, that player is motivated/passionate about money not soccer. The best players on our team are self-motivated and I can tell they love the sport. Please show your DC the soccer movie, “Alex and me”. [/quote] That’s not true, rewards motivate behavior, not passion. I want my kid to behave different, i provide a goal with a commensurate reward. The best players on the team might TOTALLY NOT be self motivated. Some of the worst players could love the sport. Correlation is not causation. [/quote] And they won’t be the best for long. When you get into high competition by teens, any non self-motivated player will no longer be the star no matter their base athleticism. Drive, ambition and an unwilling desire to have that ball. The lazy, I could take it or leave it players/can’t be bothered to chase back and parents think they are special drive me nuts. I’d rather see a kid of lesser talent giving 110% than a kid with wasted potential. #teamrudy I love the movie Rudy for that reason:)[/quote] +1000. [/quote]
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