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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you push, he will know you are not willing to wait until he is ready. If you are not into him enough to give it more time, then let him move on to someone else who is not in a rush to develop a relationship. [/quote]
Ultimately, whatever the guy's reasoning is, this is the answer. If it's a medical issue, pushing him to disclose before he feels ready will not help him feel more comfortable. If he's moving slowly because he's not sure about how much he likes her yet, rushing him will only help him decide against her. OP you are entitled to pursue the relationship you want, at the speed you want, but ultimately the person who is less invested/interested/far along in their desire for the other person decides the pace the relationship moves at, or it fails. Either because the more interested party/party who is trying to speed things up moves on, or because they push the other person away with their attempts to speed it up. If you're willing to give it more time, do so, without badgering/nudging him. Maybe date some other people while doing so, as others have suggested. If not, move along to find someone else. [/quote]

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