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[quote=Anonymous]I know a couple people who are older now who are married to former students. 17-18 year old girls are attractive.  He was being mildly flirtatious which is inappropriate, but not predatory..  Teachers need to have a Chinese wall between their personal lives and those of their students. The message he sent by saying that is "I'm interested in your love life" which is clearly inappropriate.  Grooming begins with sending out messages like this but also like this include plausible deniability. The next step depends on the responses of target if they are positive the grooming continues.  If the ovature is rebuked the ovatures end.

It's difficult when a student or anyone is in a situation  where a person in a power position over steps their bounds as was the case here.  When this occurs we must find the courage to say "That's none of your business" or some equivalent. It's not an over the top response and it's not over reacting, but it sends out a strong message that you will not be preyed upon.

It's difficult to find the courage, but had she said that or some equivalent it is unlikely he would ever test those waters ever again.[/quote]

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