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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am in a situation similar to yours (sahm, children ages 31/2 and 21 months) and tried a lot of positive parenting, which only helped a bit. Yes it made us closer and she liked it more, but little brother still got hit and bullied a lot. I got fed up one day when I was pmsing and she hurt him badly out of the blue and gave her on hard pop on the butt and yelled DONT HURT BROTHER. [b]That one instance has done more to curb her aggression than weeks and months of positive parenting techniques. [/b]Just saying... [/quote] I hear you. I do. But we’ve been trying to say to him “family doesn’t hurt each other” over and over again so I feel like popping him is counterintuitive. What else have you done?[/quote] Read the bolded again. Sometimes a brief, notable reprimand like what PP did is much more effective than other approaches. [/quote]
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