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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks. Op here. In thinking about the timing - if you add in the separation time, it's been about two years. I think. I didn't want to quiz him too specifically.[/quote]

For god’s sake woman - he told you what he thought. Absorb and process what he told you , don’t poll the universe for their opinion. You are being super dense.

If I was recently divorced and had teens I wouldn’t consider anything serious for another 10 + years. First you have to process what went wrong and how you might prevent that from happening again. You might not be up for drama again -,maybe ever. Then there’s the teens - DH and I are stressed all the time due to their antics and mood - I’m surprised he has any energy for you at all. Then there are their college educations to fund and anything you might need or want is not going to factor in at all until they are done with college.

Back away from the man, lady. You can’t hive him his space and thus don’t have the right attitude to be with him.[/quote]

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