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[quote=Anonymous]Your response cut off further discussion with your wife about the state of the marriage and your lack of a sex life together. You are the best person to judge whether your wife’s question was a good-faith attempt to open up a discussion of the problems in the marriage or an accusation. If you want closer emotional intimacy with your wife, then you should want to talk to her about all this. If it were me I’d go back and tell her that my initial response was mean and came from a place of pain, but I would like to talk to her about whether our sex life can be saved and if not what other options exist. If there’s enough good in your marriage that you’re not ready to divorce, then try to problem-solve together. That is what emotional intimacy is. If you have neither sexual intimacy nor emotional intimacy then all you’ve got is the kids and it seems like that’s usually not enough.[/quote]
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