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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Fix you "non-related issues" and stop avoiding your kids.

If you said, I spend more time out of the house taking the kids places then I would think, great. But you are just neglecting your kids.

I am sorry you have "non-related" mental healthy issues, please get those resolved and stop neglecting the kids.

Your wife has no business knowing you sex life if she is not a part of it but this has nothing to do with sex, you just wanted to start a fight.

You start fights and neglect spending time with the kids... those are you issues, not how much sex you are having.

Fix the non-related issues before you pull another woman into your mess of a way of dealing with people and issues. [/quote]

OP here... there's enough time when the kids are at school, or asleep, or doing their own thing... to be out doing my own thing without neglecting the kids being an issue... [/quote]

You go out after the kids are asleep, then are up in the next morning when they wake?[/quote]

OP here... pretty

OP here... I know it's hard for you to imagine... but they are in elementary school, and in bed by 9 PM. I can still make it to the gym, workout and back... and be up by 7 AM...[/quote]

So you are going to the gym 3 times a week, seeing a shrink at least once a week for "unrelated issues" and going out on social outing and a fully engaged parent and working full time.

Your going to the gym from 9:30-10:30 after a full day of work.

Hmm, really?

Is your unrelated issue lying and being delusional.

See if you moved out, you would actually have to take care of your kids when you had them. Isn't that the real issue you don't want to move out. Your wife takes care of the kids and you float in an out as you please.

Move out and see what it is like to really take care of kids. [/quote]

OP here… Pretty obvious thing to say in 2018… but going to a psychologist is really not an issue you can and should associate with either mental illness or “lying and being delusional”. Such prejudice  was already outdated in the 80s when even I was growing up. People encounter a variety of challenges throughout life and talking with a professional is never the wrong thing to do. Many of the more confident, smart and successful individuals I know do so sometime during their 40s… 
Anyway… Between 7 hours of sleep and having a flexible work schedule… you can easily find time to go to the gym every now and then and to therapy once a week… all that without neglecting your kids. You would have to be very bad at managing time (which I am not) to think these things MUST go together… 
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